Confusion often visits a man at moments when he is talking to you or thinking about you. His feelings are undermined by the fact that you show excessive rush in everything: in conclusions, making decisions, discussing serious issues. A man simply cannot keep up with you and cannot just as quickly change his point of view for one reason or another.
Attempts to hint at the need for you to be more perspicacious run into inappropriate resentment and manifestation of pride. If you value a man who is attracted to you, try not to be so harsh, be more feminine, and at least at first not show obvious masculine qualities.